The Modern Dating Exit Strategy
The Strategic Roadmap for High Achieving Men & Women to exit the cycle of ghosting and situationships and secure a committed, high-value partnership.
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I went on over 200 dates so you don't have to.
Modern dating is a broken algorithm. I spent 10 years and 200 dates decoding the psychology of attract and commitment.
Now, I act at the 'Headhunter for your Heart.'
I don't give tips, I provide the Exit Strategy.
✔️ You have a "C-Suite" career but a "Junior Intern" love life. You manage million-dollar budgets or high-stakes projects with ease, but you can’t seem to manage a text conversation without anxiety.
✔️ You’re tired of being the "Go with the Flow Girl" (or Guy). You’ve been trained to "be someone's peace" so you don't scare them off, but the flow is leading you nowhere but a situationship.
✔️ You’ve swiped thru all the options. You have the apps, you have the matches, but you’re stuck in the "matches to meetings" gap—or worse, the "first date to ghosted" pipeline.
✔️ You feel invisible in a crowded market. You know you are a catch—educated, successful, fit, kind—but you feel like you’re being passed over for people who bring half as much to the table.
✔️ You started out hopeful, but now you’re just burnt out. You’re starting to wonder if "good people" just don't exist anymore, or if you missed the boat.
Ready to get started?
The Truth About Dating
The thing nobody talks about with Modern Dating: It’s not just "annoying."
It is dehumanizing.
If the process feels heavy, that’s because it is.
You are in a dating era that rewards laziness, addiction to dopamine, and treating humans like disposable products. Even the smartest, most successful people are becoming discouraged.
You’ve tried to fix it by:
Playing "hard to get" (games don't work on adults).
Lowering your standards (which only attracts lower-quality partners).
Taking "breaks" (which just delays the problem).
And internally?
You’re limiting your success to remain safe.
Maybe you’re afraid that if you show your real standards, you’ll be alone forever. Maybe you think your success is intimidating, so you dim your light.
Sound exactly like you?
It’s a lot. I know. I’ve literally been there. But you don’t HAVE to do it alone. It is safe for you to want a partner who meets you at your level. It is safe to stop "dating" and start "selecting."
The Solution
Where Strategy Meets Soulmate.
In my world, when I say "Coaching Container," I don't mean giving you a list of pickup lines or telling you to "smile more."
This isn't a conveyor belt dating course. I don't teach you how to "play the game." I teach you how to override it.
You don't need another generic dating coach telling you to "just put yourself out there." You need a Strategic Advisor who can audit your blind spots, rewrite your marketing, and hand you the script when the conversation gets tough.
Problem-free dating doesn't exist. But a drama-free partnership DOES.
"I navigated the chaos of 200 dates so you don't have to."
I’m Vee. I am not just a Dating Coach; I am a Modern Dating Strategist.
After ending a long marriage, I re-entered the single world expecting connection. Instead, I found a culture of ghosting and laziness. Refusing to settle, I treated dating like a research project.
I went on over 200 dates with 200 men. I analyzed the data. I found the patterns. I cracked the code.
I successfully transitioned from the exhaustion of situationships to a secure, committed relationship by developing:
From Situationship to Soulmate
Now, I act as the "Headhunter for Your Heart." I help successful professionals bypass the 200 bad dates and ten years of wasted time and use my proven strategy to secure the commitment they deserve.
We Love our Clients.
How to Work with Vee Mindful
Webinars
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Coach with Vee Mindful
Vee Mindful's From Situationship to Soulmates is a 6-month transformational experience for men and women who are tired of the games and want to finally attract something REAL. If you're over today's dating culture, then this coaching is for you. Let's learn from each other and together.
Events
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Who is Vee Mindful?
Vee | The Modern Dating Strategist
Vee is the creator of the From Situationship to Soulmate program. After ending a long marriage, Vee re-entered the dating scene and faced the same toxic culture as everyone else: ghosting, addictive apps, and emotional burnout.
Refusing to settle, she went on a mission—navigating over 200 dates with 200 men to decode exactly why modern dating fails for smart people.
She successfully transitioned from the exhaustion of situationships to a secure, committed relationship by developing her proprietary Modern Dating Exit Strategy and her Live In-Person Modern Day Dating Bootcamps.
Now, she's been helping successful professionals for over 16 years navigate the dating market and use her proven system to secure their life partner without the stress.
She specializes in helping clients w/:
Dating After Divorce & Infidelity
Masculine & Feminine Balance
Discovering Sex and Intimacy After 50; and
Embracing Growth and Accountability for Healthier Love.
Vee's Success Record:
In the last 5 years:
- 29 clients have gone from no options to married
- 17 out of 23 Marriages saved (couples coaching)
- Vee has also personally gone out with over 200 men for “dating research”
Vee is Passionate about Restoring Optimism back into Modern Dating.
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Additional Resources
Check out our books on Amazon
They Tried. You Won.
Healing is your responsibility and your right. Going thru a divorce myself was almost devastating, but I did not let it break me. And it should not break you. If you need to heal from heartbreak or divorce, then this book is for you.
Ladies, Leave Your D*ck At Home
This journal is for the Masculine woman.. I know her all too well because I've BEEN her for over 30 years. If you want a guide to help you learn how to leave that energy behind, then this book needs to be in your hands.
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